i tend to let it go unless my advice or opion is asked for. If it is, then i am brutally honest. This is not to say that if i disagree i sit back. i look for ways to try and get my friend to open up and maybe cause them to say "What do you think?" i guess i think our job as friends is to support even the bad choices. Grit your teeth and bear it. i am sorry you are so upset.