This irks the snot out of me. The right decision for me was to go with a very traditional setup (OB, hospital, etc.) but that doesn't mean it's the right decision for everyone else and I think it's asinine that they should be forced into something they don't want as much as it would be asinine for me to be forced into it.

How is it better for a woman who really wanted a birth center/homebirth to be subjected to a stressed-out hospital delivery (and any complications that stress level might result in)? They'd never look at me and insist that I do the opposite.

*le sigh*