Entries tagged with poly

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Opt in - poly filter

I don't know how many people read LJ anymore - I used to have a poly filter on here which I need to dust off - or just (fuck it) create a new one.

I need a place to talk and right now none of it's pretty. I need advice. I need perspective.

If you're reading me - and you're poly (or at least understand it well) - and you're interested in being a sounding board, speak up.

Otherwise I'll just scream into the void I guess.

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Happy Birthday babe

Happy Birthday

belthazar_b!!!!!

May this be a wonderful year full of great things. I love you bunches!

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Poly concepts

I'm a huge fan of

tacit and his ability to sum up great ideas. I highly recommend his latest entry on "Some Evolving Thoughts on Veto"

Go ... read it now. It's well worth the read.

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Question

reposted from

archway with permission.

In a large number of ways, I find LESS emotional risk in sex than in demonstrating and receiving romance .

It takes more courage to offer tokens of time, silliness, thoughtfulness, and affection than it does to indulge in lust.

This makes me curious. It also makes me want to man the torpedoes and address the issue!

The other half of this little conundrum is the courage of the receiver.

If you are poly, where does romance stand in the web of consideration for you, your partner, your secondaries, etc.?

I am curious to any thoughts on this/these topics.