"Funny, I thought if we could do the first two, the third would just come naturally."
* what would be your definition of "getting it?"
* Is it ok for you both to have *different* needs as long as you're both invested and ok with the others needs being met on some level?
* both the DH and i have found needs for D/s, yet we have not yet found a space where we can fulfill that need for *each* other. So we have found a space that is comfy for meeting this particular need with other people, with having it mean that somehow something is *wrong* with our realtionship. How we got ther will take more time to write than i have at this moment. Can i call this evening?
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Date: 2006-07-13 02:23 pm (UTC)"Funny, I thought if we could do the first two, the third would just come naturally."
* what would be your definition of "getting it?"
* Is it ok for you both to have *different* needs as long as you're both invested and ok with the others needs being met on some level?
* both the DH and i have found needs for D/s, yet we have not yet found a space where we can fulfill that need for *each* other. So we have found a space that is comfy for meeting this particular need with other people, with having it mean that somehow something is *wrong* with our realtionship. How we got ther will take more time to write than i have at this moment. Can i call this evening?