I'm sorry this is happening... not fun or pleasant in the least. But I echo everyone else's feelings: you two are doing an incredible amount just by trying to find a counselor, especially more than once. That both of you want things to get better is priceless.
As for core needs being met by my partner...That's a really rough one. I think all of my experience in that realm has been more where very strong wants and desires are not being met, but the core is there. Then again, I'm young, foolish, and optimistic ;-)
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Date: 2006-07-14 02:42 am (UTC)As for core needs being met by my partner...That's a really rough one. I think all of my experience in that realm has been more where very strong wants and desires are not being met, but the core is there. Then again, I'm young, foolish, and optimistic ;-)
*HUGS* Hope to see you around some time soon...